Thank you so much for this enlightening article. I see lots of pushing people on social media. If I post a photo of a life bird with minimal info, the push people will say, "Oh, I saw plenty of those birds in Honduras." The pull people will either congratulate me or ask more questions about the bird. It has taken me too long to realize the difference. I have spent too much time around the pushers. I enjoy being with those who pull, and being a curious person, I enjoy" pulling," too. Those are true friends.